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The friendship of mothers is best realize as we pray for each other in the vocation we share. We are daughters of the New Eve. It is Mary who waits for us, journeys with us, cries with us, laughs with us, teaches us, and prays with us. As we retire in the evenings, may we find joy in knowing that, we may be someone's mother by day, but by night, we sleep in peace as her daughters, first.

Thursday, May 21, 2015

Prayers of Saint Gianna Beretta Molla

'A Saint in Action'
PRAYERS from Saint Gianna
Most of the quotations are taken from the booklet “Gianna Beretta Molla: Journey of Holiness”, prepared under the direction of the organizational committee for the beatification of gianna beretta molla, trans. Sr. L. DeStefano (Milan: ITTI, 1994).

“My most good Jesus, God of infinite mercy, most sweet Father of our souls and especially of the most weak, of the most miserable, of the most sick, of those souls that you carry with a special tenderness in Your divine arms, I come to ask You, thanks to the love and to the merits of Your sacred heart, for the grace to understand and to always do your holy will, the grace to trust in You, and the grace to rest securely in time and eternity in Your divine arms filled with love.”

“I make note of doing all for Jesus.  I offer Him all my work, all my disappointments and sufferings.  I make note that in order to serve God, I no longer wish to go to the cinema unless I know beforehand that it is worth seeing-that it is modest, moral, and not scandalous.  I wish to die rather than commit mortal sin.  I wish to fear mortal sin as if it were a serpent and I repeat I would die a thousand times rather than offend the Lord. I wish to ask the lord for help not to go to hell and therefore to avoid all that would harm my soul.  I will say on ‘Ave‘ daily so that lord will grant me a holy death.  I beg the Lord to help me understand His great mercy.  I propose to obey mother Malatto and to study even though I don’t feel like it, for the love of Jesus.  from this day on, I wish to pray on my knees in the morning in Church just as I do in my room in the evening at the foot of my bed.”

“Lord, keep your grace in my heart.  Live in me so that Your grace may be mine.  Make it that I may bear every day some flowers and new fruit.”

“Lord, may this light you have lit in my soul never be extinguished.”

ON PRAYER

“Prayer…’the soul of every apostolate’, interior life, life of union with God.  Constant, intense prayer to obtain grace from God.  personal and communal prayer; meditation, visits to the Blessed Sacrament, recitation of the rosary, frequent confession, daily communion, spiritual exercises…” 

“even if you go to work, don’t ever neglect your meditation and if possible, make a visit to the blessed sacrament, receiving communion at least once a week, if not daily…only if we are rich in grace ourselves, can we spread it around us, for we cannot give what we do not have.”

“why do you not succeed in doing good?  It’s because you do not pray enough.”


SURRENDER

“Whatever God wants.”

“God’s providence is in all things.  it’s always present.”

DUTY

“when one does one’s own duty, one must not be concerned, because God’s help will not be lacking.”

“One earns paradise with one’s daily task.”

“the secret of happiness is to live moment by moment and to thank God for all that He, in His goodness, sends to us day after day.”

“as to the past, let us entrust it to God’s mercy, the future to divine providence.  our task is to live holy the present moment.”

PURITY

“our body is a cenacle, a monstrance; through its crystal the world should see God.”

“Purity must control the proper use of the pleasures of the senses.  our body is sacred.  it is in conjunction with the soul in doing good.  purity is a resultant virtue, that is, a unity of other virtues that bring it into custody.  How does one keep custody of purity?  By surrounding our body with the hedge of sacrifice, purity becomes beauty.  purity becomes freedom.”

SUFFERING AND SACRIFICE

“Also in suffering, let us say: thanks be to God.”

“One cannot love without suffering or suffer without loving.”

“Look at the mothers who truly love their children; how many sacrifices they make for them.  They are ready for everything, even to give their own blood so that their babies grow up good, healthy, and strong.”

“Yes, I have prayed so much in these days.  With faith and hope I have entrusted myself to the Lord…I trust in God, yes; but now it is up to me to fulfill my duty as a mother.  I renew to the Lord the offer of my life.  I am ready for everything, to save my baby.”

“Sacrifice; the final end of prayer and action is not to receive praise or self advantage but to busy oneself, as did Jesus, in the total giving of oneself for others at the cause of renunciation and suffering, in the impassionate competition of love which arrives at the sacrificing of one’s own life.”

“To work, to sacrifice oneself solely for the glory of God.  To sow our small seed tirelessly…and if after having worked in the best way possible, we do not succeed, we must generously accept this.  a failure well-accepted by an apostle who has used all means to succeed, is more meritorious than a triumph.”

ACTION

“Do not be afraid to defend God, the church, the pope and priests.  it is just the moment for action.  Against this anti-religious and immoral campaign one cannot be indifferent.”

“We must act, we must enter into all the fields of social, familiar and political action.  and to work, because all the dark and threatening forces of evil are united.  It is necessary that the forces of good be all united and form a kind of dam, a barrier as if to say: 
‘there is no passing over here.”

“it is not enough to speak well, we must show by examples.”

“We must be living witnesses of the beauty and grandeur of christianity.  to make truth visible in one’s own person, to render truth pleasing, offering oneself as a significant and, if possible, heroic example.”

“Action, Apostolate: complete dedication to others, especially for the salvation of those fallen away from the church.  all must be done for the kingdom of God because Jesus must reign.”

“Let us always work generously with humility, not wanting to see immediate results in our work.  that which counts is to work and not to give up.  saving the world has never been an easy task, either for the Son of God of for the apostles.  I have told you that Catholic Action is a sacrifice.”


VOCATION

to know your vocation: “(1) Ask God in prayer; (2) ask one’s spiritual director; (3) ask oneself, knowing one’s own inclinations.”

“Everything has a particular end and obeys a law.  Everything develops toward a predestined end.  God has traced a way for each one of us…both our earthly and eternal happiness depends on following our vocation very carefully.”

“Every vocation is a call to motherhood or fatherhood, earthly, spiritual, and moral.  God has placed in us an instinct for life. A priest is a father, nuns are mothers, mothers of souls.”

“Woe to those young people who do not accept the vocation of motherhood.”

“Each of us must prepare ourselves for our own vocation and prepare ourselves to be givers of life.”

“All the Lords’s ways are beautiful because their end is one and the same: to save our own soul and to succeed in leading many other souls to heaven, to give glory to god.”

“If during the struggles to carry out our vocation, we should have to die, that would be the most beautiful day of our life.”

LOVE

“to love means the desire to perfect oneself and the loved one, to overcome selfishness and to give oneself.”

“Love must be total, full, complete, governed by god’s law and it must carry over into eternity.”


Tuesday, May 19, 2015




During the month of May, our parish invited children to enter a Marian Contest that involved the following theme:

"Devotion to Mary Leads to the Imitation of Christ"

John Dom decided to bake the two-hearts chocolate chip cookie cake with white and dark chocolate almond icing, along with 'no-chocolate-chip cookies.

The motto reads around his cake reads:

"Jesus without Mary is like Chocolate Chip Cookies without Chocolate Chips.  
He won first prize for the baking entries.   


Marianna entered this picture using pastels and pencil.  
She won third place. 

What a marvelous inspiration for those who are teaching children 
to invite them to show their love of our Blessed Mother 
by sponsoring a contest for them to show their artistic talents.  
Below is  the display of all the pictures entered 
and some of our favorites done by the children.





Marianna's Favorite








 I love her, Mommy! 

What does love sound like when love sings?  

If it is true, as Saint Augustine believed, 
that "singing belongs to one who loves," 
than the love song awaits the voice 
when love is finally known.

Once love is known, the song takes flight, holding the voice captive.   
The moment love is understood, the song is sure to follow.

Remember with me what that moment must have been like 

when Mary first understood 
what the love of our Heavenly Father would mean, 
for all of human kind, 
through the message of the Angel Gabriel.

That first moment when Gabriel would speak her name, 

"Hail, Mary, Full of Grace", she begins to understand
the love of her Father-God, 
to choose so humble and hidden a gentle daughter of prayer, 
as His means to answer the prayers of her people.  
This Love turns words into Flesh.  
This Love raises Life.  
This Love saves the lost.  
This Love raises voices into song.

This song of Gabriel is passed onto us, 

each time we pray these first words to Mary. 
Our voices join the choir of heavenly hosts and saints 
from the beginning of time 
through all eternity, with five simple words, 
'Hail Mary, Full of Grace'.

 When we pray these words, 

we reveal our trust in God's Love~through, with and in His daughter, 
the Mother of the Word~Incarnate, our Mother.   
We remember with her, that moment 
when she trusted and received her Son and Savior, 
as the humble handmaid of the Lord.  

Mary's trust in her Savior inspires miracles and signs of wonder.  

One moment in time, she shares her cares with Jesus, 
when they were invited to attend a wedding feast together.  
The wine had run out.   
She implores the help of her Savior-Son, 
knowing that they would not be left unaided.  
She teaches us the answer to every prayer, 
"Do whatever He tells you."


My little daughter's own expression of love captured in this picture has found a song in my heart.  Her childlike confidence teaches me to trust my prayers to the attentive care of Mary.  When we pray the Memorare each day, we are reminded that ‘never was it known’ that our cares would be ‘left unaided’ when entrusted to the Daughter of His trust.  We are inspired to offer this prayer, The Memorare, through the witness of the 17th century poor French priest, Fr. Claude Bernard, who depended on this prayer for his own miraculous healing and for the conversion of many hardened criminals.  He had over 200,000 leaflets made of the Memorare, which resulted in many reconciled to God before their deaths.  
And so, we trust and pray.    From the greeting words of Archangel Gabriel,
To the last recorded words of our Blessed Mother Mary in Sacred Scripture
Through the love of our Saintly Siblings in the prayer of the Memorare, 
                                              love has found this song.   

 We sing what we cherish to remember, 
when love first became known.

                                                                   †


 Remembering Cana-The Memorare
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WeBFqSkeV6Y&feature=youtu.be

Remembering Cana
(Never Was it Known-The Memorare)
Music Composition by Sharon M. Willoughby

A subtle use of vocal harmony, acoustic guitar, orchestra strings
Recorded May 6th, 2015. birthday of my fifth grand child, Cashyl Ryan Willoughby
Bakers Productions
Cullman, AL


Ave Maria~Gratia Plena
There are those who’ve fled to your protection.
And so, I fly unto you.
There are those who’ve implored your assistance.
To you I fly, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful.

Remember, Most Gracious Virgin Mary, (His Daughter)
Remember, O Virgin of Virgins, (Our Mother)
Remember, O Mother of the Word, (Incarnate)
O, Mother of Mercy, hear and Answer Me...
Never was it known.  Never was it known.

There are those who’ve sought your intercession.
Never left unaided.
To you I cry, despise not my prayer,
Hear and answer me.

Remember, Most Gracious Virgin Mary, (His Daughter)
Remember, O Virgin of Virgins, (Our Mother)
Remember, O Mother of the Word, (Incarnate)
O, Mother of Mercy, hear and answer me.
Never was it known.  Never was it known.
Hear, hear and answer me.
Do whatever He tells you...

                                              

 The Wedding at  Cana
      (John 2)
On the third day there was a marriage at Cana in Galilee and the mother of Jesus was here; Jesus also was invited to the marriage, with his disciples.  When the wine failed, the mother of Jesus said to him, 'they have no wine.' And Jesus said to her, "O woman, what have you to do with me?  My hour has not yet come."  His mother said to the servants,
                                       "Do whatever he tells you."
The Navarre Bible




Monday, May 11, 2015

The Newest Willoughby Baby Arrives on May 6th, 2015, Wednesday! Welcome Cashyl Ryan





Three miles from home, Heather was walking when her water broke.  I can not imagine walking three miles that way!  Ryan began his hour drive home to regroup and execute the labor and delivery plan that had been rehearsed and practiced throughout the time leading up to the big day of delivery.

On the day our little grand son arrived, tornadoes were touching down state-wide, causing a great deal of uncertainty, along with the unexpected unfolding of his birth.  With much prayer and coaching from Ryan and their doula, with the skills and expertise of their doctor, Baby Cashyl Ryan was born at 9pm, 8#, 13 oz, 21 1/2 inches long.  Shortly after he was born, he began to have labored breathing.  He had to spend some observation time in the NICU.  Ryan moved close to him, holding his little hand, placing his palm on his tiny head, to give him the comfort touch that makes all the difference to little newborns.

I had not heard of the name, Cashyl before Ryan passionately presented it to us.  It is Gaelic for 'castle' or 'fortress', which fits very nicely with the Willoughby charism.  We have compared baby pictures and see that when our Cashyl Ryan seems to be fretful and in distress, he looks like Ryan.  When calm and peaceful, he looks like Heather.  

Their loving, kind and generous priest came to the hospital to bless Baby Cashyl and to give them Holy Communion, which blessed and strengthened them as they prepared to return to their happy home life.

We will get to see him when he is Baptized on May 31st.  My dear friend, Cece, texted me throughout the entire delivery, letting me know where the tornadoes were most menacing.  Even grand nana's need coaching when grand babies are being born!    




I Love Her, Mommy!





I love her, Mommy!   

What does love sound like when love sings?  If it is true, as Saint Augustine believed, that "singing belongs to one who loves," than the love song awaits the voice when love is finally known.

Once love is known, the song takes flight, holding the voice captive.   The moment love is understood, the song is sure to follow.  

Remember with me what that moment must have been like when Mary first understood what the love of our Heavenly Father would mean, for all of human kind, through the message of the Angel, Gabriel.

That first moment when Gabriel would speak her name, "Hail, Mary, Full of Grace", she begins to understand the love of her Father-God, to choose so humble and hidden a gentle daughter of prayer, as His means to answer the prayers of her people.  This Love turns words into Flesh.  This Love raises Life.  This Love saves the lost.  This Love raises voices into song.  

This song of Gabriel is passed onto us, each time we pray these first words to Mary. Our voices join the choir of heavenly hosts and saints from the beginning of time through all eternity, with five simple words, 'Hail Mary, Full of Grace'

 When we pray these words, we reveal our trust in God's Love~through, with and in His daughter, the Mother of the Word~Incarnate, our Mother.   We remember with her, that moment when she trusted and received her Son and Savior, as the humble handmaid of the Lord.    

Mary's trust in her Savior inspires miracles and signs of wonder.  One moment in time, she shares her cares with Jesus, when they were invited to attend a wedding feast together.  The wine had run out.   She implores the help of her Savior-Son, knowing that they would not be left unaided.  She teaches us the answer to every prayer, "Do whatever He tells you." 


My little daughter's own expression of love captured in this picture has found a song in my heart.  Her childlike confidence teaches me to trust my prayers to the attentive care of Mary.  When we pray the Memorare each day, we are reminded that never was it known that our cares would be left unaidedwhen entrusted to the Daughter of His trust.  We are inspired to offer this prayer by a the 17th century poor French priest, Fr. Claude Bernard, who depended on this prayer for his own miraculous healing and for the conversion of many hardened criminals.  He had over 200,000 leaflets made, which resulted in many reconciled to God before their deaths.  And so, we trust and pray.  

   
Through the greeting words of Archangel Gabriel
Through the last recorded words of our Blessed Mother Mary in Sacred Scripture 
Through the love of our saintly siblings in the prayer of the Memorare, love has found this song.   
We sing what we cherish to remember, when love first became known.



(Linked to the Recording.  The arrow below the Lourdes grotto plays the song.)

Remembering Cana
(Never Was it Known-The Memorare)
Music Composition by Sharon M. Willoughby

A subtle use of vocal harmony, acoustic guitar, orchestra strings
Recorded May 6th, 2015. birthday of my fifth grand child, Cashyl Ryan Willoughby
Bakers Productions
Cullman, AL


Ave Maria~Gratia Plena
There are those who’ve fled to your protection.
And so, I fly unto you.
There are those who’ve implored your assistance.
To you I fly, before you I stand, sinful and sorrowful.

Remember, Most Gracious Virgin Mary, (His Daughter)
Remember, O Virgin of Virgins, (Our Mother)
Remember, O Mother of the Word, (Incarnate)
O, Mother of Mercy, hear and Answer Me...
Never was it known.  Never was it known.

There are those who’ve sought your intercession.
Never left unaided.
To you I cry, despise not my prayer,
Hear and answer me.

Remember, Most Gracious Virgin Mary, (His Daughter)
Remember, O Virgin of Virgins, (Our Mother)
Remember, O Mother of the Word, (Incarnate)
O, Mother of Mercy, hear and answer me.
Never was it known.  Never was it known.
Hear, hear and answer me.
Do whatever He tells you...

The Wedding at  Cana
(John 2)

On the third day there was a marriage at Cana in Galilee and the mother of Jesus was here; Jesus also was invited to the marriage, with his disciples.  When the wine failed, the mother of Jesus said to him, 'they have no wine.' And Jesus said to her, "O woman, what have you to do with me?  My hour has not yet come."  His mother said to the servants,
                                                         "Do whatever he tells you."
The Navarre Bible